Why Compare? Just be YOU!



Here are just a few snaps that I took the other day IN THE SNOW! I feel like the whole of the UK is just obsessed with the snow so here’s me being ON TREND (LOL)  Just thought you would enjoy these pretty snowy pictures. You might be like Lydia hun, the pictures are nice but what does the snow have to do with comparison? My answer is nothing! HA! These are just some pretty pictures to go alongside what I have to say.

I chose to write about comparison because I’ve been thinking A LOT about this at the moment and just wanted to share my thoughts with you guys and maybe help you out a little bit *impart some of my wisdom* y’know?

We all know the saying ‘comparison is the thief of joy’ and isn’t this just SO SO true! If we all focused a little more on what WE are doing and not what the people around us are doing, heck! not even just around us but on the other side of the world, people on your instagram timeline (i’m this person! always looking at the perfection of someone’s feed and wanting to be them, have what they have, do what they are doing) just remember its a highlight real, no one is going to show all the bad parts of their day, trust me they happen people just don’t show them!

Things I’ve found that have helped me recently are having good friends around me, ones that keep me grounded, call me out on my BS and just love me anyways. Never underestimate the value of a good friend. Listening to good music, eating well and just getting outside for some fresh air. Just keeping my mind in check really, the mind is such a complex place and it needs looking after as much as the rest of your body does. So take care of yours, don’t compare yourself to others and just do you!



  1. 14th March 2018 / 9:45 pm

    Lydia White, thanks! And thanks for sharing your great posts every week!

    • Lydia White
      20th March 2018 / 3:41 pm

      Thank You for your comment, glad you enjoyed the post 🙂

  2. Becky
    16th March 2018 / 8:14 am

    So so true, but so easy to forget. Thanks for the reminder!

    • Lydia White
      20th March 2018 / 3:42 pm

      Exactly, definitely speaking to myself in this one! Thank You for your comment

  3. Grace
    5th June 2018 / 9:17 pm

    SUCH lovely photos!!!

    • Lydia White
      9th June 2018 / 7:02 pm

      Thank You 🙂

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